Monday, March 30

Strange, but Beautiful (sometimes hehe)

10 interesting/crazy things about Korea:

1. You (at least I) go to 노래방 (karaoke room) ALL the time.  i love it so much haha.. but ive been losing my voice b/c of the past couple weekends!!

2. All phone chargers are the same!  You can get ur phone charged while u eat if u just ask ur waiter!! ; )

3. Beer and Soju... the preferred (and really only) drinks to have in Korea.  It's normal to drink a lot at dinner (w/ coworkers, ppl ur doing business with, etc...), go karaoke and drink a lot, then go to a late night restaurant, and drink some more.... I experienced this with all the teachers at my school.. very interesting night.  and one older teacher kept trying to hook me up with a single teacher... i think all three of us were embarrassed when we saw each other the next day haha..

4. When walking into a dept. store, sometimes its hard to tell if the clothing is meant for guys or girls.. guys dress a bit femenine.  haha.. while looking through clothes ive had to stop and ask a worker.. wait.. is this 남자 옷 (guys clothes)??

5. school system: beginning ~3rd grade, most kids go to 학원(academy) during vacation time!!  I was telling a teacher how I used to go to summer camp, and they were asking me so... what do u do there? play?? haha.. so weird.  and in high school, students generally stay in school until ~11pm, and sometimes go to학원 afterwards!! my korean volunteer friend told me everyone gains weight in hs because all they can do is study!!  ahhh~ i cant handle the thought!

6. I'm 23 in Korea!  You turn one when you're born, and then you don't gain a year on your birthday, but on the new year, along with everyone else.  so all us 1987ers are 23.

7. All kids in Korea begin learning English in 3rd grade (once or twice a week).  Theyre pretty serious about learning English here!!  And they LOVE foreigners.. although the kids are really shy to talk to me at first ^^.

8. It's really hard to find a job in Korea.  It really stinks because many fathers can't live with their families!  I know several people who only go to their family's home on the weekends because they have to work far away.  My one friend's dad works on a ship, so her dad is only home 2 months out of the year!  Ahh.. I don't think I could handle that either..  I know it's really tough for them...

9. In the US, if someone is giving you a ride, generally, u would sit in the front right?  Or they'll make a comment like "I feel like a chaffeur (sp??)".  But here, especially if its like an older person, or sort of a stranger, we are supposed to sit in the back for honor reasons maybe??  I don't know, at first it was strange, but now I just automatically sit in the back seat unless someone tells me otherwise.

10. Food is so CHEAP and so GOOD~!!  ahh, I can easily get a great meal for 3-5,000 원 which is like $2.50-4.50.  Ahh, I LOVE every meal!!  (Except when they cook the food in front of u and its still alive... still not used to that.  I'm talking about crazy clam thingys, octopus, etc..).  Oh and we often eat meals family style, which is great, since I still don't know what many things are.  And since I'm 우유부단(indecisive)!! haha.  I don't think I'll be able to pick out my meals when I come back to the states...


Wednesday, March 11

Samhoseo Elementary English Conversation Teacher

My new title : ) Ahhh, it's so fun!! The kids are soo adorable, and much more innocent than I was expecting : ). But I must say that I get nervous before every class!! It's only been three days, so I guess that's normal... I have yet to have a class of students twice, so each class is full of new students and I don't know ho
w they will react to me! Some students are crazy, and some are so quiet that class is awkward!! haha.

My first day, first class was pretty much a disaster. I could even sense that some of the students felt bad for me! Ugh! My class activity didn't work. I planned on having them pass around balls of yarn, and when they caught it, they had to say their name and one thing they like, in English. Then the class would respond by saying, "Hey _____, hey _____. What's up??" I thought it would be fun because it's kind of like slang that
 they probably haven't learned yet. Well... The kids spoke so softly that no one could hear them, and I thought they would cry if I asked them to speak up. AND, I ruined it because I kept forgetting and messing up the Korean names!! Ahh!! So embarrassing. I changed the game for the rest of the classes, and it is MUCH better. Yes!

Yeah, I gave the rest of the classes a list of English names so they can choose one. It is SO much easier for me!! haha. Although many of them have been choosing the same ones (BEN is the most common among boys. There is so
me character or famous person called Ben10, because I have heard that a lot.. I think that's why it is chosen so much--found it on google!!). Other boys popular boys names are Kevin, Daniel, David... And among girls, the most picked are Sara, Jenny, Tina...

Oh! My homestay brother is running for school president!! I hope he wins!! He's so cute!! haha. They made all these campaign posters and stuff.

Umm.. I'm getting a text book for the kids called English Land. It is full of Disney characters!! It looks really fun and I've heard it's really good. The material seems good : ) I was like, who am I to choose a textbook!?? I had one month of training and now I know what these students need I guess! lol. but I did have help and suggestions from fellow Talk scholars : ).

Okay, I think I wrote enough. I really need to take a picture with my homestay family soon so I can show them to you guys! Sorry this post didn't really lend itself to pictures... I have lots of pics on facebook!!

Monday, March 2

Where Am I?!?!?

Wow... today was the first day I felt completely uncomfortable. I'll explain more later : )

Okay, it's later...
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--The Samho Experience--
삼호서초등학교 (Samhoseo Elementary)

Sunday night, I was rushing around trying to make everything perfect for my first day of class on Monday.  People kept telling me that the first impression will set the tone for the whole year, so I was feeling the pressure.  I went to bed still a bit nervous, but excited to finally meet the kids and get my first dose of what teaching English in a Korean elementary would be like.

When I arrived to school at 9am, 김선생님(awesome teacher), told me to sit at my desk in the teacher's office.  My coteacher then came up to me and told me that I won't teach until next Monday!  And that I should stay at the desk.  I was surprised/sad/relieved/confused/etc.  No one in the office spoke very much English, so I honestly had no idea what I was supposed to do.  I read my Bible and went on facebook, lol.  I kept looking around hoping someone would say something to me.  Periodically I tried to ask if I was supposed to be doing something, but they just told me to stay there.  Of course this was more like me trying to use broken Korean and them trying to use broken English, and lots of pauses and confused faces, and then settling for what I thought was what they were trying to tell me.  

We then had lunch, and I was told (by a pretty good English speaker, finally!) that I would introduce myself to all the teachers in a meeting at 4pm, so I should prepare something to say.  During lunch, I sat and ate, and no one talked to me.  Not even my new English-speaking teacher friend.  I felt like they were thinking, "why does this girl have to be here?  she has no personality, and people basically have to take care of her."  After lunch I went home to change for the afternoon meeting and to calm my nerves.  I also began making lists of Korean words and phrases I was desperately needing that day.

The meeting was the best part of the day, because I met another new teacher, who also had decent English, and she translated for me as I introduced myself to the teachers.  I felt like I could finally show that I have things to say and that I am not just some quiet, personality-less little girl.  And people acknowledged me more after that, which was great.

Whew!  I like to be hopeful and optimistic, but this is honestly how I felt yesterday and ugh, it was painful!  I think I finally felt some of the culture shock I was waiting for, and it was exhausting, overwhelming, and lonely.  I prayed a lot that day, and despite the crazy day, He reminded me of how greatly He has provided for me:

There are some people here in Samho who have been amazing to me.  One teacher took me into her home when I didn't have a place to stay the first night and she continues to make sure I am accommodated while I am at school.  My homestay family is so wonderful.  I can't even list everything they've done for me, but to name a few, they try to make things I like, the mother is teaching me Korean, and they will not let me touch the dishes!  Oh and the 6th grader is SO adorable.. I love him!  My two Korean scholar partners are there for me and have helped me a lot, and I know they will be my close friends as this year progress.  And other teachers have been helpful and really welcoming to me.

One day at a time!  The Lord himself has gone before me, and will be with me; He will never leave me nor forsake me.  Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.  Deut 31:8 Amen.  The Lord has a purpose for me here, and as weak, insecure, and unqualified as I am, even I cannot stop His work!  Praise the Lord for that fact!!